Partner Betrayal.Orange-a bright, open, and joyful heart (life before disclosure) Burgundy red-a broken, shattered heart (life after disclosure). The crosses-my faith in God for healing. Squares-others' thoughts/ideas of what I should do. Circles-my churning mind, coming to terms of 30+ years of unknown betrayal. Flying geese-two different paths (staying/leaving marriage)-my choice is correct choice. Half-square △-split life before/after.